For those that don't know, my sister is Bisexual and has been in a relationship with a woman now for almost 3 years. When she and I finally talked about it - she let me know that for years she was always curious about the same sex, but that she loved dick too much to try and find out. Curiosity finally got the best of her and she let loose, just to find that she loves it just as much as she loves dick!!!

I have always been intrigued by same sex relations, where it is women or men.
For women, I think I understand it because a woman knows what she likes and so they in turn give the same treatment. But for men, I have always been confused as to the attraction of all out anal sex. Of course, there is the myth about the Male G-Spot (prostate) and how when stroked, a man may ejaculate within seconds. So yeah, I get that - but what is it about actually having a shaft in the anus that is also appealing?

I guess I should also say that I am not a fan of anal sex. I have tried, and it hurt like a bitch!

Is anyone else curious or intrigued by it? Or better yet, have you done it (either sex) and if so can you help ignorant people like myself to make more sense out of it?

I would never have sex with a guy (not that there's anything wrong with that)

Two women having sex with each other is a big turn-on.  An even bigger turn-on was if i was in there too ;D

I would never have sex with a guy (not that there's anything wrong with that)

Two women having sex with each other is a big turn-on.  An even bigger turn-on was if i was in there too ;D


Thanks whistle! ;)

Seriously though, I understand why men love women going at it - even I like to watch woman on woman action in pornos! ;)

And like you, I see no problem whatsoever if a person is doing it, or curious or intrigued! Who am I to judge? ;)

Thanks whistle! ;)

Seriously though, I understand why men love women going at it - even I like to watch woman on woman action in pornos! ;)

And like you, I see no problem whatsoever if a person is doing it, or curious or intrigued! Who am I to judge? ;)


I was on a bus once going downtown, and there were these two hot ladies sitting side by side with their arms around each other kissing.  It was so hot, I had to miss my stop.  They got off before I did, but I almost got off in my pants, so I had to wait until my stiff went away before I could leave the bus ;D

Kinda reminds me of an old 'Mad About You' episode where Paul took some viagara, but couldn't find Jaime, so he's walking around the city with a boner, and this old lady slaps him, thinking that he is a perv ;D

I read somewhere that a man's G spot is up his asshole.  Anyone know if that's true?

Well, she slips a finger in you, and it hurts at first, but then it feels good. Pretty soon you want another. I think you can infer the progression from there.

I would totally let my woman take a strap on to me.

'course, I like pain, so that's a turn on too.

Since women don't have a prostate, I can see why many dislike anal sex. If you ever try it again, use a lot of lube and a lot of patience.

Ant


You know, I never though about the pain side of it.
That actually makes more sense to me than the act itself....

In other words, there could be a guy named Joe Blow, who is as straight as can be, but is into S&M so much that he allows his wife to rape his anus - still knowing full well that it isn't the 'man' he wants - it's the pain he loves.....

Does that sum up what you mean Ant?

I read somewhere that a man's G spot is up his asshole.  Anyone know if that's true?



http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa/23_love_secrets.html ;)

Not quite. Anal, if done right, shouldn't hurt much for either sex. Proper cleansing, such as an enema or colonic, should be done before doing anything. Poo is very much an irritant, even in small amounts.  That's not the kind of feeling anyone wants - it's painful in an unpleasant way. Lubricant and gloves (or condoms) should be used as well, avoiding heavy stuff like Vasoline, which is like axle grease- it's not asshole grease, lol. Petroleum based lubes also eat latex and can break condoms or gloves very quickly, so avoid them.

Having the prostate stimulated is very much like hitting the G-spot on women. They develop from the same tissue, and have roughly (no pun intended) the same sensitivity.

It's pleasurable, but done roughly can be a bit painful too. To quote the RHCP:

"I like pleasure spiked with pain." - Aeroplane

Add in the mental fact that you're allowing a woman to dominate you, which is very much a turn on to me, and there are now three factors working on me: pleasure, pain, and emotions.

You can't rape the willing.  ;)

Ant


So then I would deduce that any man would like/love this if done the proper way.

I have done it the proper way, and it still hurt like a bitch! I think it is mostly because when you really don't want to do it, no matter how much you try and relax, you really just don't. I love my husband with all of my heart but we have an understanding - it is exit only.

Now, without digging too deep Ant, can I ask if you and the wifey have ever tried this?
From what I know, I am pretty sure her stance on the situation is the same as mine, but is she open to trying other things that stimulate your pleasure of pain? (Just curious as to whether or not women are open to doing this for their man)

(For those that don't know - I have talked on the phone with Ant's wife and Ant himself before) ;)

I'd say it's more common for a female to be curious about this than a man. Or maybe a woman is just more likely to admit to it. I dunno.  ::)

Can't say I've ever been into homosexual sex. But I can tell the difference between a good looking guy and an ugly looking guy.

yes, I've done it. I was actually in a relationship with a female for awhile.


This, I absolutely did not know! :o

Can't say I've ever been into homosexual sex. But I can tell the difference between a good looking guy and an ugly looking guy.


I think most men can too - it just takes a stronger man to admit it! ;) 8)

I think most men can too - it just takes a stronger man to admit it! ;) 8)
Yes, true. But conversations such as "what celeb male would you have a homosexual one-night-stand with?" don't usually pop up until after the 8th or 9th beer.  ;D

Yes, true. But conversations such as "what celeb male would you have a homosexual one-night-stand with?" don't usually pop up until after the 8th or 9th beer.  ;D


You know, that seems to be the norm around here. I have read that most men will admit to stuff so long as they have been relaxed by alcohol. Me? Shit - I'll tell you straight up if a woman is hot and fuckable! ;D

I read somewhere that a man's G spot is up his asshole.  Anyone know if that's true?


Without even looking at Tam's article, I can tell you that it is!

Who said Ma Nature didn't have a wicked sense of humour?

I've had a couple of same-sex episodes in my life...they occurred, however, when I was much younger (just in my teens) and involved no anal-play whatsoever (G-spots, male or female, were an alien concept back then!)

Just a couple of horned-up teens needing release I s'pose...I don't feel bad 'bout it...

My friend and I were curious when we were younger, so I've been with a woman. I found that the curiosity never went away, so I consider myself bi-curious, I guess. I don't rule out women if the husband and I ever part ways. :)

Never tried it but thought had intrigued me at one point. However, with my problems with oral sex, I don't think it would work out too well and besides, I love cock too much.  ;D ;D



Cat

I been with women before, my husband was involved too.  I would do it again, we just haven't had an opportunity to do it. 

I love the female body and I find that when we watch porn, I never look at the guy, it's always the girl. 

I would say that I'm bisexual.


My husband and I rarely have anal sex but I do enjoy it, some of the most intense orgasms I've ever had was during anal. 

I been with women before, my husband was involved too.  I would do it again, we just haven't had an opportunity to do it. 

I love the female body and I find that when we watch porn, I never look at the guy, it's always the girl. 

I would say that I'm bisexual.


My husband and I rarely have anal sex but I do enjoy it, some of the most intense orgasms I've ever had was during anal. 







I have heard that women can have a truly intense orgasm from anal. I am at the point where I enjoy my ass being played with and licked and poked with the tongue, but having tried it before and it hurting so badly, I am not sure I can go down that road again just yet.


Without even looking at Tam's article, I can tell you that it is!

Who said Ma Nature didn't have a wicked sense of humour?

I've had a couple of same-sex episodes in my life...they occurred, however, when I was much younger (just in my teens) and involved no anal-play whatsoever (G-spots, male or female, were an alien concept back then!)

Just a couple of horned-up teens needing release I s'pose...I don't feel bad 'bout it...


That's cool Paul.

I knew of the male G-Spot because one of hubby's relatives is a quadriplegic and they were trying to have a baby. He had to go into the doctor's to have himself stimulated this way in order to get the semen for invetro. ;)

When I was a teenager I let a gay guy go down on me a few times.  He was in his 30's 40's.  The first time I was hitching and he picked me up.  After that I visited him once in a while.  Another time I did fuck a guy in the ass.