Yeah, I admit it, I do this. Sue me: I can window shop!

So, when you look at a "hot" person, what do you look at, and in what order? I'll go first (sorta continues from the "what turns you on?" thread).

To be more specific, on first look of a woman, in order of turn-on factor and where I look:

1) Her hair. Long, silky hair is a big turn on. Natural red heads are best, but brunette and blond great, too. Ass length hair drives me nuts: you already have my undivided attention at that point.

2) Her face: too many different things to mention here, but makeup, shape, color, etc, all can be turn ons. Penciled in or plucked eyebrows or Tammy Faye type makeup are major turn offs. Not big on piercings either.

(note: if I see her from behind, I look at her ass and thighs, and, if in shorts, her legs)

3) Her chest: not really looking for a size here, but it's noticed when you aren't wearing a bra. Seeing nips is a turn on: hard nips a super plus.

4) Her outfit: I take a moment from metally undressing a woman to see what she is dressed in. Not looking for anything in particular, though trailer trash, slutty or stuck up comes across in what you wear, and those are not good things in my book. I like the "girl next door" look: average but still provocative, in a subtle way. No major turn ons here, but it's what I look at 4th.

5) If you're showing belly, I look at that. If you have a treasure trail, you're pretty much the only thing in the world that matters at that point. Big time turn on, perhaps my biggest.

6) Her lower arms are usually next. Nothing usually noteworthy here, though tats or a bit of pubes showing are hawt!

7) If you had a treasure trail or really toned stomach, skip 6 - I'm looking at your waist/groin now. Wondering what's behind the jeans, shorts or dress. If you're wearing Daisy Dukes, it provides more instant gratification, but leaves less to the imagination. Nice hips are a turn on.

8) Thighs and legs are next. If you're toned and/or proportional, it's a turn on. A nice ass is always a turn on - filling out your jeans (and wearing clothes that fit) are a turn on. If you're in shorts, I'm looking for a tan (or at least not Casper white), shapely legs, and thighs.

(Although finding a woman who displays any hair in these areas is rarer than winning the fucking Lotto, most of the time it is very sexy - sometimes it just looks like crap though)

9) Your ankles and feet: Ankle tats are sexy. Feet are sexy if your toenails are painted a color that matches you or your outfit.

10) How you move. We do 1-9 in a matter of seconds, probably before you've even noticed or taken a step. There really is "Something in the Way She Moves". Can be a big turn on.

I have no idea how many men do this, but I can imagine it's a high number. At least I look at all of you, some guys just stare at T&A.

Unless you are a butt ugly 2 bagging hag, men (and probably a good number of women) are looking at you.

Let's hear from the women now!  ;)

Ant

I do this a lot with hot girls. lol.

I do this all the time as well

Personally I wouldn't like to mentally undress a female/male. I mean, presence of a cock is bad enough, but when I know it comes with boobs on the top half, I know we're dealing with some kind of manchick saga...

Personally I wouldn't like to mentally undress a female/male. I mean, presence of a cock is bad enough, but when I know it comes with boobs on the top half, I know we're dealing with some kind of manchick saga...


I didn't mention shemales! Though, I have to admit, a lot of pics I see of them have me fooled, especially the Asian ones.

Ant

This is how I do it for men:

1. Hands - Nothing turns me off more than a man who has prettier hands than me. Nails have to be cut, don't like the 'coke' nail if you will. And they have to be pretty big hands. If I am mentally going to use you - your hands better be able to hold me in the air!

2. Shoulders - I love broad shoulders, for nothing more that the thought of protection.

3. Teeth - if you have some of the fuzziest teeth in the world, I write you off from this point on. They don't have to be straight teeth, or crooked teeth - I don't care about that. If you don't care enough about yourself to take care of your teeth - then I don't need to take anymore time with you! (The thought of the fuzzy bacteria in your mouth and where you mouth could possibly go.... what you could give me.... FORGET IT!)

4. Ass - I love a man with a bubble butt. The thought of it flexing during a thrust drives me nuts!

5. Body Build - I am not looking for muscle bound steroid freaks! I like a man who looks normal, who has that 'cuddle' effect on me. Soft with a little bit of love handles.

6. Clothes - if you are wearing a wife beater - forget it. And if you look like a page from Abercrombie & Fitch - you are too gay for me! I like a man who can dress himself without going for the "Notice Me" factor.  Mostly though - the clothes that turn me on are sports driven! I love a man who is a jock and looks like one too!

After that, I am pretty much fantasizing about what our sex would be like.
I don't go the gorgeous guys cause they are too full of themselves, generally it is more average men who know who they are, know what they want, and know how to treat a woman.